She said You are in this for you, nobody is going to be with you at the gates. You are going to make to make an account for every thing you've done. She said I'm not going to be there with you you have to go alone and you can't blame anyone else for what you did or didn't do. As she was saying this I was imaging someone reading stuff I've done and then seeing a stamp saying "FORGIVEN" again and again we can be forgiven for all our sins but we have to ask. Yes, Jesus died for our sins so he could forgive us but we have to want him to forgive us. Be modest for you! Dont wear modest clothes and hate it because youre not pleasing God if you are doing it for people. Imagine youre having a party and you ask everyone to dress fancy so you are a fancy group you know but one of your friends come and they look so beautiful but they're angry that you wanted them to wear that and they're complaining even though they chose to wear that but they're mad you wanted a fancy party? That's like God he wants us to obey him but be happy to obey him. A good attitude and your best for the outside is all he wants.